Does perfectionism rule your life? Do you worry about how other people see you? Or how they judge you? Are your self expectations impossibly high? The Costs of Perfectionism First of all, perfectionism is a hard master. It never lets up. For this reason it is exhausting! Furthermore, it creates huge stress. Some common costs […]
There are a multitude of benefits that come from a regular practice of reflective journaling.
How you manage your feelings has a massive impact on the quality and enjoyment of your life. A core component of counselling and therapy is to assist you to best manage your feelings. To enhance your ‘emotional intelligence’. There are many approaches to working on feelings. I use a variety of therapies, techniques and tools […]
Values Based Conflict Values based conflict has tremendous destructive power. Values based conflict tends to escalate over time. How well we honour and take good care of what is most important to us, largely determines our happiness and well being. When we live to our values, our ability to achieve peace and happiness skyrockets. When we […]