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Living by default

Living By Default

Living By Default Living by default is more like living from a place of disempowerment. We do not feel free to direct our own lives There are many factors that contribute to living by default. If you think of your life as a movie, then who is in the director’s chair? Do you allow certain […]

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TED Talks

Discover TED Talks

TED talks are addictive! If you haven’t already discovered TED talks then this website could easily become a favourite. Whatever your interests, TED talks are bound to have something worth watching. This site deserves regular visits as the fabulous content is continually expanding. Here you’ll find diverse topics that go far beyond the Technology Entertainment […]

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character strengths

Discover Your Character Strengths

Character Strengths Assessment This post gives you a link to discover your character strengths. It is a free character strengths assessment. The link takes you to the VIA Institute On Character website. (The initials originally stood for Values In Action. Now VIA is a stand alone word within the organisations’ name). This is a not for […]

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Burnout Remedies

Burnout Remedies

Applying immediate burnout remedies is essential if you are already in burnout territory. Recovery is not an overnight quick fix. Using the analogy of a bank account, recovery requires consistently making more deposits than withdrawals into your energy account. This needs to be maintained over an extended period of time. Usually for several months. In […]

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Empowered Living

5 Foundations For Empowered Living

Empowered Living There are 5 foundations for empowered living presented in this post. Empowerment is a huge field. The amount of information is overwhelming. These 5 foundations for empowered living provide a framework for organizing the information. This framework allows you to analyse each area. You can then select specific targets for change work. Whether […]

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Managing Stressors

Managing Stressors

Managing stressors well has become a vital and essential life support skill. The impact of stress on health is well documented. This includes mental and emotional well being. Success – in every area –  is supported or threatened by how effective we are in managing stressors. Managing Stressors – 4 Key Areas Identify exactly what […]

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Values based conflict

Values Based Conflict

Values Based Conflict Values based conflict has tremendous destructive power. Values based conflict tends to escalate over time. How well we honour and take good care of what is most important to us, largely determines our happiness and well being. When we live to our values, our ability to achieve peace and happiness skyrockets. When we […]

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Communication problems are one of the most potent sources of stress in relationships.

Sources of Stress

This post provides a checklist to identify sources of stress. These stressors are grouped into broad categories. This helps to recognise the many ways that stress can impact us. Sources of Stress – Time and Resource Management Over commitment – a poor match with your time, energy and resources Time pressure Poor work life balance […]

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